Features · People and relationships

Keep up with the people who matter to you.

Time together adds up from the entries you share. Set how often you want to be in touch with each person and Well Lived shows who you're due to reach out to.

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Illustrative preview · fictional peoplePeople
3 people in view2 check-ins due1 birthday coming up
Dana ParkFriend · 5h 25m together
On track
MarcusFriend · 11h 45m together
Catch up soon
MayaFamily · 42h 10m together
Due this week

Photos and names are illustrative. Your people, time together and reminders stay private.

What you can do

Time together

Each person's page shows the hours you've spent together and every entry and conversation, newest first.

Who you're due to see

Choose a rhythm per person, monthly or yearly or anything between, and see who's overdue, most overdue first.

Birthdays

Birthdays coming up this week, with or without the year.

A check-in, draftedPlus

Get a short text or email drafted from your history together. Copy it to your phone or email; Well Lived never sends anything for you.

One person, over time

Remember the relationship, not just a contact.

Open a person to see your time together, when you last connected and a running history of what you did and discussed. Choose a check-in rhythm that fits the relationship.

Illustrative preview · fictional person and historyDana Park
Friend · Portland, ORMet at a design meetup in 2024

Enjoys trail hikes and ceramics. Ask how the new studio is going.

Time together5h 25mLast 90 days5h 25mTime entries3
Keep in touchNext check-in · Nov 8Every month
Together & in touchAll 4 sample records
Coffee togetherCaught up on work, travel and the ceramics class.1h 20m
MessageShared a trail idea for the weekend.In touch
Hike at Forest ParkWalked the ridge trail and talked about next year.2h 15m
Dinner togetherTried a new neighborhood restaurant.1h 50m

Time together adds up from the three time entries; messages stay in the relationship history without adding hours.

Questions

About people and relationships

Does it read my contacts or messages?

No. You add the people you want to keep up with. Conversations you log are the only record.

Do the people I add know?

No. Your list is private to you.